The location-based dating app built for women. Real profiles. Real desire. Zero creeps. Find her tonight.

We got tired of apps made for everyone that serve no one. So we built one that's actually ours.
Built by queer women. No men, no couples-seeking-thirds, no nonsense, just her looking for her.
Photo verification kills the fakes. Every profile you swipe is a person who's actually there.
Location-based matching shows you who's close and online right now. No endless pen-pal energy.
Discreet mode hides you from coworkers and exes. Your queue, your rules, your business.
Grab the app, snap a quick selfie to verify. Takes under a minute and keeps everyone honest.
Tell us what you're after: something tonight, something real, or just seeing who's out there.
See who's nearby and online. Match, chat, and meet. What happens next is your story.
"Finally an app where I'm not getting DMs from couples. It's just us."
"Matched at the bar, met her twenty minutes later. That's the energy."
"Discreet mode means my job stays out of my dating life. Lifesaver."
Download Grindher free on iOS & Android. 18+. Your move.
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